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Breastfeeding
By: Heather L. Sanders
Meeting baby's basic sustenance needs and the benefits
therein. At some point in your pregnancy the question will come
up, "So are you planning on breastfeeding?" It may
be a daunting question if you are a new mother. It can be
overwhelming with all there is to learn and consider before making
the decision to breastfeed or not. It might be that you formula
fed your previous children, but have started to research the
possibility of breastfeeding your next. And maybe you are
a 'seasoned' breastfeeding mother, but still have specific questions
that you would like to have answered or need to point a friend or
family member to some helpful resources. Well, that is what
this page is all about - breastfeeding resources for meeting your
baby's most basic need . . . sustenance.
My first child was not breastfed. My adamant comment
was, "My breasts are not bottles!" If breastfeeding
is the last thing you ever wanted to do, rest assured, you
are not the only one. I did not feel it was a wrong decision,
but that I personally did not want to do it. I used the age
old excuse, "My mother didn't breastfeed me and I was a healthy
baby and child." I even used my first daughter as an example, "Look at her . . . she was formula fed and she's never been sick
a day." Over time, however, I developed and enjoyed friendships
with women that did make the choice to breastfeed. I came
to see it as a beautiful thing THEY shared with THEIR children,
but still not something I wanted to do. It was really the
economical aspect that first turned me to the idea.
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So, my second child was soon to come into the world
and I made sure the house was clear of all formula samples so that
I would be forced to make this 'breastfeeding thing' work.
It didn't at first. It was painful and being unknowledgeable,
I allowed my daughter to latch-on incorrectly in the first days.
Don't Do this - it is a hard pattern to break and as a result,
I suffered from cracked nipples and I dreaded feeding time with
a passion. My toes would curl-up each time my daughter latched
on and I hurt . . . oh, did I hurt. My mother watched my anguish
during one of these feedings - I was muttering 'nasties' and crying
when she lovingly asked, "Is it worth it?" Thankfully
for my daughter, I am a stubborn woman. I got the mindset,
"I AM GOING TO MAKE THIS WORK." I figured millions of women
did it and I wasn't going to be any different. I would not
admit defeat.
Now that isn't the mindset I would recommend ANY woman
taking in their approach to breastfeeding, but it is what got
me through. I made a call to a friend that had successfully
breastfed two children already and she came over and gave me her
knowledge and support to get me on the right track. It was
3 weeks and two tubes of Lansinoh, before I could feed my daughter
without wincing, but after that it was such a joy. It stopped
being about money and started being about relationship and it continued
that way until nearly her 10th month when she weaned.
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"My
first child was not breastfed. My adamant comment was,
'My breasts are NOT bottles!'" |
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As always, I encourage you to read, read and read some
more. Speak to friends or family members that have successfully
breastfed and enjoyed it. Ask them to be 'frank' with you
so that you are not disillusioned should you meet with any obstacles
along the way. Because most probably, you will!
Join your local La Leche League, a breastfeeding support group,
and ask questions until the answers satisfy you. Check out the
links below - they are packed with information. But whatever
you do - don't become discouraged. Your breasts were created
primarily for this purpose and it is a rare circumstance for a woman
not to be physically capable of breastfeeding her child.
Breastfeeding Support, Articles and Information Links:
The following links are ordered alphabetically and not
by preference:
The Adoptive Breastfeeding Resource
Website (ABRW) An organization created in 1997 to serve
the growing population of Adoptive parents who are interested in
adoptive breastfeeding, also known as 'inducing lactation' for those
women who have not gone through a pregnancy. Helpful articles,
information and tips.
American Academy of Pediatrics'
Policy on Breastfeeding The AAP recommends breastfeeding
as ideal nutrition and sufficient to support optimal growth and
development and recommends that breastfeeding continue for at least
12 months, and thereafter for as long as mutually desired.
Look here to read the entire report supported by the World Health
Organization and UNICEF.
Ask Dr. Sears
Who doesn't know Dr. Sears? Check out this link for his
articles related to breastfeeding, such as Why Breast is Best,
Right Start Techniques, Common Problems, FAQ (Frequently
Asked Questions) About Milk Supply and Breastfeeding Challenges,
and the like.
A Woman's Guide to Breastfeeding
An article from the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), this
article answers some common questions that first-time breastfeeding
mothers may encounter. Also offers links to other AAP Breastfeeding
Resources.
Breastfeeding Basics
Everything you always wanted to know about breastfeeding, but didn't
know who to ask. A mother of 6 breastfed children, and an
IBCLC (International Board Certified Lactation Consultant) with
over 20 years experience in lactation counseling, answers questions
about breastfeeding.
Breasfeeding.com
Offers a variety of articles on breastfeeding and its long-term
effects for a children regarding allergies, asthma, IQ, cancer risks
and the like. Also gives advice on getting started with breastfeeding
and other on-line resource links to prepare for breastfeeding your
baby.
Dr. Newman's Breastfeeding
Articles A well-known breastfeeding advocate, Dr.
Newman's latest book, The Ultimate Breastfeeding Book of Answers
continues to receive praise and has recently been added to the La
Leche League's book list. Many of Dr. Newman's articles are
now available on-line at the above link.
Jane's Breastfeeding
Resources Concerned about the 'where' and 'when' you
can breastfeed. Read about other mothers as they share their stories
regarding their personal experiences with breastfeeding in public.
La Leche League International
Founded to give information and encouragement through personal help
to breastfeeding mothers. LLLI believes that breastfeeding,
with its many important physical and psychological advantages, is
best for baby and mother and is the ideal way to initiate good parent-child
relationships. Look here to find a support league in your
area.
Mothering From The Heart A professional breastfeeding
consultation service. A registered nurse, board certified
lactation consultant and nursing mother! Providing help to
nursing moms through consults, education, breast-pump rentals/sales
and other nursing accessories.
ProMom, Inc. Promoting
the awareness and acceptance of breastfeeding. Great article
entitled "101 Reasons to Breastfeed Your Child"
United States
Food and Drug Administration Recommending that breastfeeding
is the best bet for babies. "More than two decades of research
have established that breast milk is perfectly suited to nourish
infants and protect them from illness. Breast-fed infants have lower
rates of hospital admissions, ear infections, diarrhea, rashes,
allergies, and other medical problems than bottle-fed babies."
For more on this, look here.
World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA)
Promotion breastfeeding all over the world. A global
network of organizations and individuals who believe breastfeeding
is the right of all children and mothers and who dedicate themselves
to protect, promote and support this right. This site has
a great article, "Nurturing the Future - Challenges to Breastfeeding
in the 21st Century."
Breastfeeding Book Suggestions/Selections:
As I said above, asking friends and family members about their
breastfeeding experiences is a great way to move you forward in
your decision to breastfeed or not. But don't stop there.
Take time to gather some book knowledge as well regarding the benefits,
blessings and even difficulties you may encounter along the way.
Educating yourself is a priceless buffer against discouraging or
critical thoughts you may have or comments from others regarding
your decision. Remember, this is you and your husband's
decision. No one should or can make this decision for
you two. However, as the mother, YOU will be the one breastfeeding
as it involves YOUR body and YOUR time. So be certain that
you know why YOU are making this choice and then give yourself the
knowledge to back your heart's conviction.
The Breastfeeding Book:
Everything You Need to Know About Nursing Your Child from Birth
Through Weaning
by: Martha Sears R.N.,
William Sears M.D.
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The Ultimate Breastfeeding Book of Answers
by: Jack Newman and Teresa Pitman
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| The Nursing Mother's Problem Solver
by: Claire Martin (Editor),
Nancy Funnemark Krebs (Editor), William Sears, M.D.
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Content Copyright © Heather L Sanders. May not be reprinted without permission.
About the author ::
Heather Sanders lives in Huntsville, TX with her husband and 3 kids. Heather has started and sold two successful online cloth diapering businesses, including The Diaper Hyena. In addition to those two businesses, she has written exclusively for Diaper Pin in the Cut of Cloth section. Shortly thereafter, she wrote a few articles for Natural Family Online and in 2004, served as one of the Moderators for the Cloth Diapering Forums at Mothering.com. Later, she worked as the Assistant Administrator for the entire forum and served on the Expert Panel at Mothering.com for Cloth Diapering.
Heather was one of the founders of Real Diaper Association, owns and manages Clothdiapersale.com and blogs personally at www.ohmystinkinheck.com.
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